Darkness to Dialogue: Living Well With Mental Illness

Intellectualizing in Mental Health Recovery Article Summary Intellectualizing is a defense mechanism often used in mental health recovery. While it can help us make sense of trauma, it can also delay emotional processing. This post explores how to recognize and balance intellectualization with emotional engagement in recovery. Have You Ever Found Yourself Analyzing Your Feelings Instead of Actually Feeling Them? Sometimes, in the middle of intense emotions, it feels safer to step back, break everything down, and make sense of it all. This tendency, called intellectualizing , is a psychological coping mechanism where the mind leans heavily on logic, analysis, or abstract reasoning to avoid uncomfortable feelings. While it can provide clarity and temporary relief, relying too much on intellectualization can quietly distance us from the very emotions we need to process in recovery. I want to explore how intellectualization shows up in mental health recovery, especially for those of us n...

  Chronic Mental Illness and Real Recovery: Progress Over Perfection Living Through the Invisible Storm Some mornings, getting out of bed feels monumental. I’ve spent years measuring my recovery by whether I was symptom-free, only to feel like a failure every time a setback hit.  Living with a chronic illness isn’t   about being perfect; it’s about coexisting with your illness, it’s about learning to coexist with ongoing challenges, finding ways to care for yourself even when progress feels invisible, and embracing small moments of stability. Clinically, conditions like bipolar disorder, major depressive disorder, schizophrenia, OCD, and BPD alter brain chemistry, cognitive energy, and motivation. Simple tasks showering, responding to messages, and cooking a meal, can feel insurmountable. Understanding this helps us recognize that struggling isn’t laziness or weakness. “Healing can happen within the struggle, not just after it.” Redefining Recovery Society often ...