I didn’t fully understand the concept of emotional maturity during my healing from trauma. At the time, I couldn’t grasp how much it would impact my mental health and overall well-being. When I wasn’t emotionally mature, I struggled to manage my feelings—especially when depression and anxiety would hit, or when trying to heal from past trauma. I’d let my emotions control me, spiraling into negative thinking or reacting impulsively in stressful situations. This only made my anxiety worse and deepened my depression, because I wasn’t equipped to handle the ups and downs of life in a healthy way. But as I’ve worked on becoming more emotionally mature, I’ve noticed a big difference in how I cope with challenges. For instance, when I feel anxiety creeping in now, I’m able to pause, reflect, and regulate my emotions instead of letting fear or panic take over. Similarly, when I feel depressed or overwhelmed, emotional maturity allows me to acknowledge those feelings without letting them ...