When Memory Protects: The Link Between Trauma and Forgetting Have you ever looked back on a difficult time in your life and realized entire pieces were missing—conversations you can't recall, moments that feel foggy or distant? You're not alone. For many people, especially those who’ve experienced trauma, memory doesn’t behave like a straightforward timeline. Instead, the brain sometimes blurs, distorts, or blocks out painful memories as a survival response. This isn’t a flaw in your memory—it’s a reflection of just how deeply your mind tries to protect you. By exploring the connection between trauma and memory, we can better understand how the brain copes with overwhelming experiences, and why remembering—or not remembering—is a key part of healing. I can relate to this more than I ever thought possible. There are pieces of my past that I simply can’t recall—parts of my trauma that feel like they’ve been wiped away, as if my mind was trying to protect me from the pain. At ...

Mental healing is a deeply personal journey, one that feels both overwhelming and empowering at the same time. For years, I felt lost, as if recovery from the trauma I had experienced was something far beyond my reach. It all started when I found myself in 2 abusive relationships, a toxic cycle of domestic violence that left me broken in ways I hadn’t anticipated. It wasn’t just the physical pain; it was the emotional and psychological toll that wore me down, making me question my worth and my ability to ever be truly happy again. Before the abusive relationship was the sexual assault. I didn’t know how to cope with the swirling chaos of pain, fear, and anger. Every day felt like an uphill battle. The weight of those experiences lingered, coloring my perspective on life and how I saw myself. Healing, I thought, was a distant dream. My mind and heart were shattered, and the idea of putting the pieces back together seemed impossible. The road to recovery seemed so long, so difficult. For...